Great to hear from you. I've come quite a long way since posting this message so what I now have is online here ... http://cheryl2003.topcities.com/katelouisasands1874.htmlhttp://cheryl2003.topcities.com/katelouisasands1874.html (Make sure you go back a generation, you'll get a photo of Kate's family!)
I actually connect to the SANDS side of the family - Kate Louisa SANDS was sister to my great-grandmother, EDITH GRACE SANDS.
I have no problem at all about sharing what I have with you but I have a slight problem in that there is an entire suitcase full of letters!!! But I plan on going through them all again some time soon, so I'll see what is of most interest!
You may have some answers to a couple of things that have been puzzling me for ages - where was Jesse on the 1901 census??? And where exactly does Philip B MAYERS fit in???
Do you have any photos of Jesse, Kate or other family members? I have a fair number of unidentified photos you may be able to help with.
Last question - have you been in touch with Clive Heselden? His email sporadically bounces but I remember he tied in with the Hastings HESELDENs.
If you want to contact me privately, my email is firstname.lastname@example.org