I was looking up Barthena and see she remarried in 1901 to a JW Farr. I can only assume the marriage either didn't last or that she was buried with Harris and the Last Name was stencilled Milks. More interesting information.
Now to see if anyone in New York can get to the East Pittstown Methodist Cemetery for pictures !! IF my hunch is correct, CHristina is buried next to her first husband Jesse Hoyt.
Thanks for all the fabulous leads !!! YOu have no idea how long I've been stuck with this line !! And now there is an additional sibling of the Hoyt girls to search for !!!!!