Hello Pauline, Youra information is all correct except for Thomas' first wife as Minnie Jane Howery. According to the records we have Thomas' duaghter Sarah was born in 1839 and died from typhoid fever in 1854 at the age of fifteen. I will be much easier to handle these questions by direct communications.Contact me at; Ray_Iddings@thegrid.net or call (831)385-0157. Our records reflect only one marriage for Thomas and that isJane Sterling.Is it possibel that your grand mother married at a very young age, sometime before 1854. Regards Raymond.