Hello, I am despartly searching for My Distant cousin Vicky Schoeffman (Sp?) Her mother was Margaret Ilges The sister of My grandfather, Charles (Bud) Ilges. Thier father was Clarence (d 1965) thier mother died very young of appendicitis around 1923. i do not know her name.Clarence remarried to Bertha Marconi.My grandfather left home very young because of Bertha. I heard she was a misserable woman!!!We do not know what happend to his sister margaret, other than that she married William Schoeffman and had a daughter Vicky.My Mom remembers visiting St.Louis as a child and longs to hear from her long lost cousin Vicky.if anyone knows anything about this please please contact me at LAATAYA@MSN.COM.