I have searched for the parents and siblings for my Henry Inlow/Enlow for many years. I know that he named his first born Thomas Leonard Enlow. I am wondering if your Thomas could be his father or brother.
Henry Inlow/Enlow, according to his Census information, was born in Boston, Massachusetts in 1835,36 or 37. His parents were both born in Ireland. He joined the Army in 1861 as Henry Inlow in Lemont, Illinois and stated that he was a sailor. He later joined in Indiana with the name Henry Enlow. He married Mary Jane Elder in Hamilton County, Indiana in 1870 and had one son, mentioned above who died as a child and four daughters.
Would you please let me know if this is the right time frame and if you know, the names of Thomas and Mary Inloe?