I am clutching at straws. Ann Ironsides married Robert McArthur 15 May 1849 in New Deer, Scotland.In my family pictures I have a picture of James Ironsides taken in Aberdeen.He is definitely a relative, but no notation is on the picture as to how. My great-great grandmother was Margaret McArthur, married to James Milne in Aberdeen. The picture was in her daughter's album.I have been unable to trace Margaret.She had a brother Alexander who died in Scotland and his widow and son came to the US in 1856.I have been able to find out about them. Does anyone have any idea who this James Ironsides might be....or are there many by that name?The picture was taken in Aberdeen, around 1850.