They were financially secure and she didnt need to marry again. She was on the 1820 census for Northumberland County ... but not sure when she died. Winder was not my direct line so I dont have as much on him ... just havent done the research. I have been to Northumberland County and the clerks office, it is awesome .... to be able to see the original records and documents. Winder married Molly Ball March 1, 1764 in Northumberland County. They had son James and daughter Sarah. I have no info on James but Sarah married a man named Original Wroe June 16, 1788 in Northumberland County.