Thank you all very much for your responses I cant believe after 3 years , I once again stumbled on this site through face book, but maybe things happen for a reason. I have spelled Stewart with the e instead of Stuart as this was wrote on my birth certificate, however it is more than likely to be Stuart as my mum openly admits she is no good at spelling, and it was her who wrote the certificate. I am Married with three wonderful girls, and there are times when they are growing up you wish they new their granddad, even though I was little when he left me, I am sure most of you would at least like to know who they are? anyway im babbling, once again thanks all for your feedback please keep in touch... james.
p.s Geoff had told my mum he had had children all over the place so you never know we may be related.