I cannot answer your questions, but I have a few observations.
1. There are 4 Charles Alexander Kilverts. The fourth one is the son of CAK(b.1918) and he is known as Charles Alexander Kilvert III(I don't have a date of birth, but it would be approx. 1950).
So I think, to make sure there is no confusion, we should change the numbering that you have on Sheet No.124. Therefore:- Charles Alexander Kilvert(b.1835)should just be CAK. Charles Alexander Kilvert(b.1874)should be CAK I. Charles Alexander Kilvert(b.1918)should be CAK II. Charles Alexander Kilvert(b.c1950)should be CAK III.
2. Anne Frances Abbott Kilvert's second name is actually spelt "Francis".
3. Your dates are wrong at the bottom of the first page(where's your editor!!!). CAK I was 29 when he married Anne,and he was 31 with his first child Elizabeth F.He was 34 with his 2nd child Ann W. -36 when Jean Dun. was born and 44(in 1918) when CAK II was born.
4. Now I've got a question for you. - In the Rhode Island Cemetary, there is a Margaret Joseph Kilvert(1926 -1962).
Is this Peggy, the 1st wife of CAK II(b.1918)?
All the best for now, keep up the good work, regards, Bill.