Marg this message is for you actually, but I've know Jane for some time now.
There is an Ellen Kinlan in my family also. Now I'm not sure where she was born, but my Kinlan family lived in Dublin City at least in the mid-to-late 1800's.
Father: Henry Kinlan a wood worker,was married to Charlotte Colton, (no info on Charlotte or where Henry was born) children: Patrick, Charlotte, Ellen, Mary, Elizabeth, Henry Jr. Kathleen(my Grandma) are those names I know, others still unknown.
Kathleen Kinlan Born 1886 in Dublin was the youngest of 9 children. She moved with and married John Askin Topping in Canada 1911. that's how I got to be here.
Anything sound right with names your Cousin has? Let me know. ps: LDS family search forum lists them as Kinlon, you could try that search as well.