Read some new information about Jeff Kissee today that suggests he and Robert (1855-1887) were brothers and their father was named Robert who died in the Civil War. That would explain them both being in the family cemetery. We have assummed that Robert 1855-1887 was the son of Jesse & Nancy Kissee and born in Douglas County, Missouri as a 5yr old Robert Kissee is there in the 1860 census. Cannot find Robert or Jeff in the 1870 census. Nor Jesse, Nancy or their other two children McDonald & Elizabeth.