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I've done a little looking, but all I've found so far is Harry and Nellie in the 1900 census. That does give 1888 as the immigration year, but those dates can be unreliable. It gives Harry's birth date as Aug 1866, but I haven't found a match yet. You have Orie as his Dutch name? Is it family tradition that Harry came from Friesland? If so, we should be able to find him.
Do you think Harry and Nellie married in the NL or US? Please tell me every detail you can think of so that we can find their roots.