Hi, I have a Martha Lightsey, born in 1849 in Ware County, Georgia, who married Joseph Millikin on the 21 Apr. 1869, in Appling County, Georgia. Ware County was formed from part of Appling County. She was the daughter of Jacob Lightsey and Mary Hiers. I don't know if she might be your Martha since you say about 1852. Good luck.