I believe I am speaking of the same Benjamin Lodor about which you requested information:
My resources show that this Benjamin Lodor (Loder) was the son of Benjamin B. Loder b. 1732 and later changed the spelling of his last name to Lodor. My resources also indicate that this Benjamin resorted to the original spelling of his surname (Loder). The younger Benjamin (the one under inquiry) was the 3rd child of Benjamin and Christina.
I show that the Benjamin under inquiry married a Lucy Street on the date you have. Benjamin and Lucy had two children:
John Loder b. 08/17/1796 d. 01/18/1864 (born and died in Philadelphia, PA)
Benjamin Lodor (there's that spelling again!) I have no birth or death dates for this person but he was evidently born between 1797 and 1799. He married Elizabeth Marrison - no date available.
On 10/07/1799, Benjamin (the one you inquired about) married Jane Hogeland (Hoagland?)at the Presbyterian Church in Churchville of Bucks county PA. Jane was the sister of Benjamin's brother, John's wife, Sarah. Benjamin and Jane had 3 children together.