I have exstensive research on my lohse's. I have August & Wilhelmine Lohse ,they then had August. August#2 married Wilhelmina. On the voyage to america August#2 died at ellis island. So wilhelmina and her children came straight to IOWA.They had lots of kids. My gr.grandmother BERTHA was the oldest.This is my problem.As i drove through a local cem,I came across to graves.I asked a long distant cousin about them and she says they are the FIRST AUGUST &WILHELIME LOHSE. If this is true, why didnt any of our family keep in touch. they were in the same town. My mother never met them... She is very doubtful, that they are the ones.. what should I do??Our cem,doesn't have all their records.. And another thing , the to graves have almost brand new stones. The same exact kind my gr.grandmaother has. I think this is weird.. my reaserch was done by a cousin, and he only came down to the living, he didn't go forward, into the past.. thanks for any help..