My grandmother was Lillian Fattoruso Cromarty from Long Island, Copiague, NY. She was born In NJ to Carmela Demartino and Pasquale Fattoruso. Carmela had a sister Christina Demartino Grassi. Maybe a Lombardo married a Grassi? There was a Carmie in there too.
My grandma's cousin was a chef named Tony Lombardo. Tony was married to Olympia. They had a son named Johnny Lombardo who was a truck driver years ago.
I loved Johnny as a kid growing up. He must be my mom Kerry's age....late 50's to 60's? Tony was very funny and competed with my grandmother on the cooking!