Lyla I would love to help you out. Here is what I know.
Bennie Lopossa I do not have a wife but I have one some Kenneth Allen Lopossa.Hopefully this will let you know if this is the same Bennie.Apparently Kenneth wrote a letter to mom mother looking for information and stated his fathers name was Bennie.Bennie was born on Christmas day in 1900. His father was Charles Sydney Lopossa and (charles's wife) was Lillie Jane Lopossa.
Let me know if this is what you are looking for. Thanks Allyson Maughan