Brenda, Thanks for getting back to me. There appears to be some questionable confusion. My g-g-gf was John Gilman, but there appears to be even more impossible confusion to say the least. My Nehemiah Gilman died at the age of 84 too. His son was John like mentioned above. Could you please contact me on my e-mail address. I collected my Gilman details from my owm family cemetary in New Brunswick.