Hi Sandy, I do not know if these threads connect but here goes. My Great-Great-Aunt Mary Margaret Benton (Mollie) was married to James Henry Lytle of Alabama in Ft Worth, TX in 1880, and she is buried in Oakwood according to her death certificate. She died 1912 and is listed as a widow at the time. In 1985 my father (now deceased) went through the Tarrant County Phone Books and made contact with an Arthur Lytle Jr. who told him that James Henry and Arthur Sr. were brothers and barbers in Ft Worth. He also told my father that James had a son named Owen and that both of them went to California and died on the same day. I have only recently started to search for more info on this ancestor and her husband and children and will add any more info that I find.