Dorothy, Your father and I are first cousins, that would make you and I first cousins once removed. I was saddeened to learn of your Aunts Freda's death, she will be missed. Diane Maggio, daughter of Marie and Barney, is your first cousin. It is my understanding that she left Carlstadt, NJ. shortly after the death of her mother,never knew where she went. Read Theresa book, "Mattanza" and visit her web site frequently, enjoy them both. Staw well, Hi to your Dad,Angelo, Tucson, AZ.