Hi Mary, did you ever find the massaro coat of arm. I know there are several on the internet.Not sure if they are real. If you have one, I wold be interested in it.I was planning to keep the family name alive by making signet rings with the coat of arms.
By the way, I'm in Toronto, Canada. We came from Cervinara (Campania area), Italy.I found several massaro's in New York....my grandfathers brother's family.