I just found your message on the Maxson(Maxon) forum today. My information indicates that your Phoebe Maxson Bateman is a sister to my Nancy Ann Maxson Conner.Their father was Nathan Maxson b.1766 in Shrewsbury, Monmouth, N.J. I don't have a name for Nathan's wife so I was most interested when you noted that Phoebe listed Pa. as the birthplace for their mother. Nathan Maxson, according to my records, was the son of Simeon Maxson and Mary Babcock.
Phoebe and Nancy had 8 other siblings.I have their names if you are interested. I am trying very hard to get more information on this family so maybe we can help each other.
My Nancy died in Iowa but her husband, Robert
Conner, went on to Oregon with son John Conner and his wife, Catherine.They settled in Marion Co., Oregon. Hoping to hear from you.