Bernadettethanks for the additional information,I know of my family connection to the third gravestone James McCleave who died 1912 was my Great great Grandfather as I understand it he had 13 children, one son James died, he subsequently had another son and named him James also , he was my grandfather.Mary was his daughter . Jane his wife, my grandfather remarried , Sara was his second wife. He and my father and various members of the family are buried through out Ballylesson church graveyard. The family also has a distinct connection to Malone Presbyterian church, and I was once told where founder members so I will enquire through that source for any connections. I do not know if James the senior had any Bros.Sis. but will try and find out.