Kelly, I did reply to your email. Yes, we are looking into the same family. Your grandfather and my mother (Lenore) were first cousins. (Seems silly that we have never met in that case, but as you know, it is a very large family!)
I have been able to get more information on William McHale's family than Honor's, but am still working on it. Hope to hear from you soon. Perhaps by comparing notes, we can really get somewhere!