Lyla, I don't know who Charity's father was, however, here's some info I know about a Charity Mower who was born in 1830.You may already have this info but maybe one additional tidbit may help in some way.
Charity Anna Mower b. 19 Aug 1830 Kiskatom, Greene Co. NYd. 27 Jan 1908 Acra, Greene Co. NY and burried in Cairo, Greene Co. NY Married toLyman CHIDESTER (also seen as Chiddester)on 12 Oct 1853 in Kiskatom.He was Born:7 Jun 1826Place:Catskill, Greene, Ny and Died:30 Mar 1904
His parents are listed as Father:Phineas CHIDESTER (AFN:B88S-62) Mother:Mary TIFFANY (AFN:B88S-77)
I also have some children's names if you want them.Not sure if you have all this info or not but thought I'd try and help. Good Luck, Shane Mowersblazoo8@yahoo.com
PS.If you do get any additional info on Charity's family (Parents etc.) I'd love to know more.I'm trying to put all the Mower and Mowers families from New York together to help others with their research.Thanks