I believe Jerry was my cousin. I had not seen him for over 30 years and last heard about him in 1981.
My cousin. Gerald Mullikin, was in Vietnam at Embassy and supposedly had family there. In 1981, his wife Lucy was trying to find him - last I heard about him. I never heard about children or if he had another wife-Lucy was his first wife. I believe both he and Lucy both worked for CIA. I met he and Lucy in mid sixties when they were first married. Last I saw either one.
He lived in Seat pleasant, MD outside of Wash, D.c. He was adopted by John and Irene Mullikin. John was killed in hunting accident over 30 years ago - I did see him at his father's funeral!!! Correction-That was last time I saw him. His mother, Irene, was living in nursing home in Southern Maryland- 6 years ago-don't know name of home. He had a brother named John-nickname Junie for junior, who was an auto mechanic and I saw him last at father's funeral -he was living in Mississsippi- Mobile, I believe.
That is all I can recall- I hope it helps-I will post follow-up if i can think of anything else.