I noticed your plea for help re Henrriette, Caroline Neale. You may have noticed I have been seeking my G G Great Grandmother Caroline Neale. in the 1881 census she was listed as aged 52 -54 living in Newington London.
The age coencides with your reletaive birth date and I was wondering if there was a link?
Do you have a date for her passing? and where she may be buried? Is there any chance she had sons as well as daughters? My GG grandmother was Alice and she was killed during the blitz in London
Just another chance there may be a link and if you can help I would be appreciative.