Donna: The listings I have are only for the Niblett family and the only reference I have to marriages into the Standish or Stanley families is a marriage of Joseph Niblett to Mary Ann Stanley at Islington in 1852. Otherwise the references are only to the villages of King's Stanley, Leonard Stanley or Standish. If you still want to see the records let me know your e-mail address and I will send it.
Both of the names Standish and Stanley are very old, preceding the Norman conquest and are topographical in origin. I wish you all the best in your searches.