Re: Lillia Ober Family in VT

Household Record1880 United States Census
NameRelation Marital Status Gender Race Age Birthplace Occupation Father's Birthplace Mother's Birthplace
Eddy OBERSelfMMaleW28VERMONTLaborerVERMONTVERMONT
Esther OBEROtherMFemaleW23VERMONTKeeping HouseVERMONTVERMONT
Lilla E. OBEROtherSFemaleW3VERMONTVERMONTVERMONT
Mamia A. OBEROtherSFemaleW2VERMONTVERMONTVERMONT
Abbie OBEROtherSFemaleW2MVERMONTVERMONTVERMONT
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Source Information:
Census Place Grafton, Windham, Vermont
Family History Library Film1255349
NA Film NumberT9-1349
Page Number363B

1900 United States Federal Census
Name: Lilla E Farmun (this is how it is indexed--the name looks like Farnum on the image)
Home in 1900: Grafton, Windham, Vermont
Age: 23
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1877
Birthplace: Vermont
Relationship to head-of-house: Wife
Spouse's Name: William
Race: White
Household Members: Name Age
Farnum, William, head, b. May 1867, age 33, married, married 7 yrs., b. NH, father b. VT, mother b. NH, day laborer
Lilla E., wife, b. April 1877, age 23, married, married 7 yrs., mother of 3 children - 3 children living, b. VT, father b. VT, mother b. VT
Ethel M., daughter, b. April 1896, age 4, single, b. VT, father b. NH, mother b. VT
Harry E., son, b. July 1898, age 6, single, b. VT, father b. NH, mother b. VT
Mabel H., daughter, b. August 1899, age 9/12 (9 months ), b. VT, father b. NH, mother b. VT
Source Citation: Year: 1900; Census Place: Grafton, Windham, Vermont; Roll: T623 1695; Page: 4A; Enumeration District: 247.

Since you have Lilla's year of death, I would contact the town in NH where she died and see if they have her death record.If you can locate this record, hopefully it would give you the details of her birth date and place, as well as her parents' names.

If you don't know where Lilla died (and if NH requires burial permits) I would contact the town where the cemetery is located and see if they have her burial permit there.Burial permits should tell you where and when she died and where she is buried.

If you cannot locate her death record or burial permit, I would contact the cemetery where she is buried and ask them if they have any information on her.