I am doing a tree for a man age 76 with no computer. He saysMy dad Herbert Watling was born Lahore India of English parents on 3 Sept 1889 (question this as its date of sister too) siblings Rose MArie, David, Herbert adn Emily Margaret born 29 Nov 1889 Bombay India registered Commonwealth Relations office King Charles St Whitehall London. Simon Oberlander was the father of these children but he died and they were adopted by George Wingham WATLING Emily Margaret married 6 Sept 1905 to John Cameron Ritchie witness my dad Herbert Watling and one other name... Uruaquay South America Emily had a baby called Dot and has a south american birth cert in spanish was issued an English passpert too.
My grandfather married Pauling Oberland who I presume was a widow and had Rose, David, Herbert and others.
I assume my contact means this is the father of the tree:- George Wingham Watling awared a silver teaset as Corps Quarter master segt no commissioned officers of the Hongkong Volunteer corps Stonecutters Island 27 Oct 1895.