I own a copy of the History of Harlem by James Riker and there is much information about a Frederick DeVaux (De Voe), but it does not agree with what you have.You might try to find a copy of the book in your library and take a look as there is much information on this family.
From the book.....
Frederick DeVaux was born in France, a Walloon, who, like so many others of that day, escaped the bloody persecution into Holland.He then went to Mannheim, Germany long enough to obtain citizenship.In 1675 he immigrated as a widower, but in 1677 he married Esther, daughter of Daniel Tourneur.With this marriage he acquired much land to which he added much more.He and Esther had children: Frederick; Daniel; Joseph; Abel; Rachel, who married Johannes Dyckman; Esther, married Levi Vincent; Susannah, married Andrew Nodine; Mary, married Evert Brown and Joshua Bishop; Leah, married Nathaniel Bailey; Dinah, married Louis Guion and Tobias Concklin; Judith, married Johannes Barhite; and Abigail, who died unmarried.There is no Abraham listed here, although his son, Joseph, does name a son Abraham. Frederick DeVaux died in 1743 at the age of 90.
Esther was the daughter of Daniel Tourneur, born at Amens in Picardie, France, in 1626.Her mother was Jacqueline de Parisis, who married Daniel on September 5, 1650 at Leyden, Holland.They had seven children.He died at Harlem, NY in 1673.Esther, was youngest of the children.Her siblings were Daniel, Jr.; Maria; Marretje; Jacques; Thomas; and Madeline.
HOWEVER, Frederick de Vaux had a brother, Nicholas, who was also found in Harlem in 1677.He filed suit against another man for taking payment in the form of fence rails for the use of the man's land to plant flaxseed, but before he could plant his seed, another man planted the land.The court decided that Nicholas should get his fence rails returned and soon afterwards, he removed from Harlem and settled in New Jersey with his wife, Marie See, and they joined the church at Bergen, April 6, 1679. "His descendants, under the name De Vouw or De Voe, were long to be found at Hackensack and Tarrytown."
Nicholas and Marie had children: Susanna, born 1680, married Thomas Brickers and Jacobus Van Gelder; Mary, married Jacob Buys of Bergen; Rachel, married Abraham Martelingh; Ester, born at Harlem, who married Ulderrick Brower of Hackensack in 1698; and Abraham.
Marie died prior to 1706, the year Nicholas remarried to Margaret Jans, widow of Jacques Button.They had a daughter, Esther, born in 1711 and named after Nicholas's daughter who had just died.
Abraham de Vaux, son of Nicholas and Marie, joined the church in Hackensack in 1694, but removed to Tarrytown where his mother's family had gone.His wife was named Mary, maiden name not listed.Abraham and Mary had sons Nicholas and Johannes.Abraham served as deacon in 1708 and elder in 1724; offices afterward held by son Johannes de Vouw.
There's just a whole lot of information in the book on this family.Hope this much helps some.