Re:Jacob Oldaker, b. 1808, is not the one who married Elizabeth Fry.He is from Henry Oldaker & Elinor Borden, Henry Oldaker & Elizabeth Bartlett, Jesse Oldaker & Charity Wyckhoff.
Jacob Groves Oldaker, b 1809,is from Henry Oldaker (1710/1712) & Elinor Borden, Henry Oldaker (ca 1747) & Elizabeth Bartlett, Henry Oldaker (ca 1777) & Susanna Groves (his first wife), (This Henry was a brother to Jesse above).
JACOB GROVES OLDAKER, b. 14 Mar 1809, d. 29 Apr 1887, married 13 Nov 1831, ELIZABETH FRY, b. 02 Aug. 1807, d. 06 Dec 1899.Both are buried Frytown Cem., Johnson Co., IA. They had 12 children: Henry J., James W., Susannah, John W., Rebecca, William J., EVANGELINE ELIZA who married JOHN WESLEY SELBY (my ggrandparents), Jacob Groves, Jr., Andrew T., Phineas P., Mary E., Burton Zachary. (There was also Eve [Oldaker] b. 26 Mar 1828, who is believed to be Elizabeth Fry's daughter before her marriage to Jacob and was raised as an Oldaker).
I would be interested in knowing if this record is in agreement with others who are researching this family.