Update: About 3 years ago I happened to be at St. Charles Cemetery (Farmingdale, NY) when I came across a Viola Pacelli (d. 1969 @ Pilgram State Psychiatric Hospital). I wasn't sure she was related, so I took down little information. However, she was interred with Angelo Pacelli. So, I bet the "Violet" in the 1930 census at Creedmoor Psych Hospital is really Viola and the Angelo listed at a different address in Brooklyn (see previous post - he was married but wife was not living with him) is her husband. Angelo's real name could be Angelo Joseph or Joseph Angelo...or she divorced and married her brother-in-law.