Hi Bob That is fascinating - you and your wife are thus cousins - ha! It also makes us cousins too because Sarah Smiley's brother William (second William)who married Rebecca Moore, is my gggg grandfather. The Webbers were mentioned in Martha Ballard's diary, 'A Midwives Tale' which is also on video in the USA.
Like you, I only have Jane Weare's parents as Andrew and Jane nee Lintell.
I would love to know how your wife and you descend from Parks and Webber-Smileys. My email is firstname.lastname@example.org
My great great grandfather Shepherd Parkman Smiley came to Australia in search of gold but eventually drove stage coaches similar to your Wells Fargo ones and initially partially funded by them. So there are many Smileys here descended from Hugh and Mary Park ..