After reading your postings, I realized that the names and dates you have matched those I have compiled.So we're related!
EMILY BAUCOM (daughter of PENUEL BAUCOM and CELIA LAW or LOWE) b. 1825, Butler, Kentucky; married. BENJAMIN PENDLY, July 03, 1844, Butler, Kentucky,.and was my ggg grandmother on my father's side of the family.
Emily and Ben had 14 children one of whom was PRIOR LOVEN PENDLEY, my gg grandfather and the brother of DICEY (your mother).
PRIOR married VERNICY THOMPSON (b july 1851). One of their children, MARY JANE PENDLEY (b. July 1871) was my great grandmother. She married ROYAL RUFUS SWINNEY and produced my grandmother CARRIE IRENE SWINNEY in addition to several other children.
My e-mail to you keeps bouncing back. Has your e-mail address changed? I'd love to exchange and share information with you!