I don't know what you're looking at. Find a Grave is FREE, has always been free. Just use your google box and enter the words Find a Grave. It will go right to it. This is no membership thing-its free and it's something a lot of family historians/researchers use. It's wonderful and a great place to let others see old photos etc. You can find some wonderful things there and it's a way for a family to go from grave to grave of their ancestors, no matter what state they were buried in, and be able to see the headstones and if the person who made the memorial did it correctly--see oral history and information too. If you are a person just starting out to find out your family history--this is definitely a website you'd want to know how to use. And I repeat its totally free.