I, too, could not find him in the 1900, 1910 or 1920 census.His wife Effie Susan Millsap was born in 1887 and died in 1976.They had four children:Clyde, b. about 1915, Godsee, b. about 1918, Ethel Leta Viola* (aka LeEta) b. about 1925, and T. J. Jr, born in 1928.
* Le Eta was born Oct 10, 1925 in Pidcoke, Coryell Co, TX.She married Robert Clinton Lee on Feb 4, 1944 in Coryell County, TX and has four living children, per RootsWeb. See Larry Miller at Lamstrike@sbcglobal.net .
Tom J.'s 1917 Registration Card for WWI was filed in Pittsburg County, Oklahoma.He lived in Ashland, OK and was a farmer.He did not enter the service, as shown on the 1930 census record.
Someone named Stanley is also looking for info on Tom J.