Sylvia, I have a Mary Catherine Phenix, b Abt 1828 in PA, d 27 Feb 1912. She married Hiram Drawyer (b abt 1815 NY - d 1886) on 27 Sep 1849. Their children were John, Albert and Elbert. (Albert and Elbert could have been the same person or twins.) John Drawyer and his wife Josephine Kissinger Drawyer had two daughters, Lizzie B. Drawyer and Elsie L. Drawyer, b 1891. Could this Elsie be your relative?