Dan Freibergs owns the original Philhower homestead off Philhower Road in Cokesbury, NJ between Water St. & Winterwood. I think it is Philhower Road and not the parallel Longview Road. Use Mapquest to Cokesbury & zoom in. I do not have a good email address for Dan, contact Philhower Family Association President, Jane Eick jse at aol.com - of course substitute @ for ' at '. Dan gave me a photo a few years ago at the Reunion. Dan also owns the Rambo's Country Store in the center of Califon. He has local books etc for sale.
Check Find-a-Grave - Fairmount Presbyterian Church old & new grave yards have the most. The 'new' cemetery is at the intersection of 512 Fairmount Rd & 517 Old Turnpike Rd. Go north on 517 a mile or so for the church & the 'old' cemetery.