It appears that Charlotte Poulter , ba). Crondall , c.1833 was more likely to have married James Callingham at St.Mark's , Wyke , Surrey , 31/10/1861 . Father was Benjamin , Publican from Ash . The register can be viewed on-line at the Normandy Historians site .
The nearest Charlotte Smith , with a husband John , on the 1871 census was born Newdigate , Surrey , c.1840 .