My Grandmother was Virginia Pusey from Blackwood. She had a sister named Pauline Stiles. I also heard the story about some one owned or died on a boat in sj. Please contact me. I would love to chat with you. I also went to school with Beatrice Pusey. A man named Billy Pusey just attended my Mother (Florence nee(Jones) hubby b-day party in Nov.2003 She introduced me to him. I hope he is the one you are looking for. Please contact me.