I dont know if Henry Rae is related to Adam Rae. There is a strong possibility that he was given he was born / lived in Gavington. There is an older cemetery inside the Eastate at Gavington (formerly known as Langton)I have not seen it, and i am told it is overgrown and in a general state of neglect, with many of the stones toppled over, and weather beaten.
Adam Rae had a Daughter named Agnes Rae who was married too Thomas Miller. In 1881 Thomas Miller & Agnes Rae lived at Gunsgreen Hill Cottages Ayton. (Theres also a Guns Green at Eyemouth, which is close by Ayton)
Census 1881 Thomas Miller aged 45 Farm Servant B Fogo Agnes Rae aged 45 wifeB Fogo Thomasaged 19 Son Gardner/Groom* Maryaged ?DaughterFarm Servant* Adam Raeaged 14 son Telegraphist* Phillisaged 12 Daughter* Jamesaged 10 Son * Agnesaged 8Daughter* Maggieaged 6Daughter* Beatriceaged 5Daughter* Barbaraaged 2Daughter born Ayton * all Born Langton near Duns.
These are essentially My Grandfather Robert J Aitchisons 2nd Cousins.
The Family Stone at Ayton cemetery is in a terrible state of repair, due too weather erosion. However, someone at some point has tried to repair it, but i do not know who?
The Stone Reads Thomas Miller died 9th November 1904 aged 69 Agnes Rae his wife died 2nd February 1918 aged84 Thomas Miller their Son died 22nd November 1881 aged 20 Jessie Miller Eldest Daughter died 28th April 1914 aged 54 Annie Miller 3rd Daughter died 20th May 1923 aged 57 Beatrice Miller died 27th November 1888 aged 13 Barbara Greenlaw Miller Youngest Daughter died 16th February 1959 aged 80
The Rae's seem to have been Merchants in the Berwickshire area.
At Chirnside Kirk there is a Stone erected by Henry Rae of Gavington in Memory of his Daughter Margaret Rae who died in 1824...Could this be your Henry Rae?
At Swinton Kirk there is a George Rae who died in 1908 aged 68. His wife was Agnes Heatlie who died July 1933 aged 90
The Rae's also seem to have been Tenant Farmers for many years.
Thomas Rae & his wife Elizabeth Stewart were farmers at Hutton Mains Farm until Thomas Raes death in 1905 aged 68.
There was also a Thomas Rae a Farmer at Clarabad Farm (just along the Road from Hutton Mains)he died in August 1915 aged 68.
Adam Rae who is my connection to the Rae family through his wife Janet Grinlaw/Greenlaw was a Farmer at Middlefield near Langton Died at Langton in 1872 aged 73. His Daughter Jessie wife of Joseph Kerr died in Austrailia in October 1867 aged 31. Janet Greenlaw died 13th April 1883 aged 87.
There was also a Henry Rae that Farmed at East Fogo he died in April 1846 aged 50. His wife was Margaret Wilson who died in August 1882 aged 85.
All the Locations mentioned are fairly close by.I think i have sent you almost all the information i have on the Rae's.