Caroline Rathbun Love was married to George Washington Love after her first husband died in the civil war.She had three children while she was married to John Leigh...sons Joseph and Osmer.Her daughter Carrie A. died as an infant. She and George W. Love had seven children...fives sons and two daughters.Frank S., Elmer, Charles, and Carrie M. all died as infants. Mary A. died as a young adult,.. and Frank B. and James C Love were still living when their mother died in 1906. Among her survivors were five brothers:Bowen Rathbun, Giles Rathbun, Byron Rathbun, Charles Rathbun, and J. F. Rathbun along with one sister, Olive Rathbun McNab. The Bowen Rathbun that lived next door to her was probably her brother, and the first family you have listed might be her brother, Byron. Anyway this may help you with the list of children for James Eldred and Ruth Cummings Rathbun. George Washington Love was a brother to our ggrandfather, Jeremiah Love. I hope this helps some.