You wrote; "Hendrik Abelz RIDDENHAES (my husband's 8th G-Grandfather) born: c.1642 in New Jersey, USA"
Hendrik Abelz was my 7th great grandfather.His father Abel (Reddenhausen) Redner, from Hatzfeld nr Waldeck Germany, married Geertje (Nanninx, Manniks) Nanninks in New Amsterdam in 1641 and died in 1646.Hendrik Abelz was from a previous marriage, probably born inGermany.
Source; "Ships Passenger Lists, New York and New Jersey", boyer, Carl, 3rd. and "Settlers of Dutch Descent".NY Rec. 65;223; NewNeth. Register, 1911 no.3 p. 39-411.