Are you a descendant or just a helpful genealogist? I only found out a couple of months ago that my great-great grandmother was a Rexford.My mother's father didn't talk about his family at all. I'm on Cape Cod - not too far from New Haven. I might have to get down there and get copies of some records. My kids, nieces & nephews are now in their 30s and I'm trying to put together a comprehensive family history for them.