I responded to your message to me without reading all the other messages on thethread. This really looks like we're talking the same family.
Hope to hear from you directly -- also, is there a way you could send me a scan of this marriage record? I can provide a "modified register" of the descendants of Jesse & Phebe that I've been able to discover. Not to mention thanks of a few other Buchner/Ribble who've been in the dark for a number of years.