I have been searching for almost 20yrs. I am an a adoptee born Sept 12st 1965 Sutter Memorial Hospital. BM name is Bonnie Richey(Sirsi), she attended American River College and graduated from El Camino Fundamental High School 1963. I have met Bonnie Richey(Sirsi) and she will not give me any information about my BF. I will not contact her even though I know how to, she is selfish and not a very nice person. During my search after all these years I was contacted by a person who was searching for the same BM Bonnie Richey(Sirsi). His DOB is 06/29/1966 and on the Cali birth index there was also a female born possibly (twin). There is a BF name listed as Ovodow on his, mine there is no BF listed. We were born at the same hospital , delivered by same Dr and adoption was handled by same Attorney. Both our Adoptive parents worked at the same place in Sacramento Aero Jet or Aero Space, but say they didn't know each other? My Adoptive parents I love very much, my search is the same reason like most every other Adoptees search, finding out who we are and our Ancestry. I am frustrated and it's become tiring searching for a ghost. Since Bonnie Richey(Sirsi)has that info and refuses to cooperate, makes it obvious she is hiding something. She denies having more babies 06/29/1966 , she would of had to have sex right after giving birth to me? We all make mistakes in our lives and hopefully learn from them, so her mistakes are forgiven in my mind, so why continue to keep this secret. Posting on these sites for us Adoptees and blasting her name is not what I wanted to do, she has left me with choice. So when do you give up? When can you accept the fact that no one out there has any info or our BF doesn't know we are searching for him? As an adult, I am still denied the rights as an adult to know my background. I'm tired .