No I don't have an instant message service, you can e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I don't know how much information Jennifer has supplied, if any. Let me know what infomation you have and I will fill the rest.
This is a great Christmas gift to the family to once again be in contact with you; I had promised my mother when she died that I would keep in contact with you and Troy, because she so wanted to get to know the two of you. As I said earlier, Troy has never been in contact with the family in any way--maybe someday.