As far as I know he was never actually married to my Grandmother. My father was born August 21, 1946 along with his twin sister Blanche. My other two (twin) aunts were born April 29, 1948 or 49 I think...I know April 29 is their birthday but what year, I'm not sure. I have his social security info from the death index. My father and sisters grew up in the Washington D.C. area. If at all possible next time you go to the grave, is there any way to take a pic to send to me either snail mail or email? I'd love to show it to my dad. My grandfather left when my dad was about 3 I think. I was told that my grandfather died in Bethesda Maryland..I think he was in the service or something. Any other info you can help me with is appreciated.