I think we are working on the same John Rolin.John was my gggg-grandfather, however we have him born in Wayne County, Missouri on December 18, 1849. Marriad first to Jane Smith, one daughter born to this union Emma. Second he marriad Mary Ann Lorance on July 22, 1877. She was born September 3, 1861 in ? and died March 6, 1941 in McClain County Oklahoma. They are burid at the Hopping Cemetary in Wayne Oklahoma. We are not positive about Johns birth in Wayne County, Missour, we are sure it is Missouri, as that is what all family records state. John and Martha's children were: Sivility Jane, Laura Elizabeth, Rosy, William, Olie May, John Thomas, Malinda Catherine, Charles Henry, Andrew Jackson, Benjamin Franklin (Andrew and Benjamin were twins), Anna Belle, and Mary Minnie Malissie.Does any of this fit your records. John is listed on the 1920 Oklahoma census, Martha is listed as Mary, so Mary must have been a nickname.